If a woman is of age and has sex on the first date is she sexually liberated or is she a hoe?
Dede/George – WONDERFUL QUESTION.
I hear you both speaking and you are both (in my opinion) correct.
George (funny dude) – you could choose a different word, but it’s all symantics: skank, slore, hoodrat, harlot, the list is infinite….most times they would not know they were being judged so harshly if you chose a different one….
DeDe – you sadly resist what George is saying. Some men would view a female that way.
Others might not, but they are generally those that are down for whatever and usually, that is all they are interested in. But a good man generally seeks a good woman and one seen as a casual hook-up might not be viewed as so good…..just sayin’.
In this day and age, we are sadly a society that is low on moral base and value and high on what is right (right now) and what you can get right here and now. Minds have been twisted over time to think that type of behavior is ok and acceptable, when clearly to certain sectors of society it is not and may never be.
It IS quite possible to be a “liberated” skank. I know LOTs of them, but I do not judge them. Some of my good friends are this, but i’d never say it to them as it would hurt their feelings. I just try to tell them different.
However, as George has stated, don’t be surprised at the response from others who have/share a similar view as his.
You may also think it’s ok to smoke weed, drink and drive or cheat on a spouse, and, I say, to each his/her own…..and again, i say, there are consequences to everyone’s actions.
We are all individuals and no one really likes to be judged – no different than the person who poses nude in those magazines – they don’t want to be “judged” – but they will be….
Why would you care how someone else views your actions?
In the end, the only thing that should really matter is who is doing the judging
I AM A 60 YEAR OLD WOMAN, MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN DECEASED FOR 10 MONTHS AND I WOULD HAVE SEX WITH A MAN ON THE 1ST DATE, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE I JUST WANT TO GET MINE AND WHO CARES WHAT HE THINKS OF ME, I AM ONLY LOOKING FOR SEX I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF FINANCIALLY AND HAVE MY OWN HOME & CAR, SO I DON’T NEED A MAN FOR OTHER THINGS, JUST SEX. IF I NEED A COMPANION TO ATTEND AN AFFAIR WITH, I HAVE ADULT SONS WHO WOULD GO ANYWHERE WITH ME. I HAVE DAUGHTERS AND GRANDKIDS WHO KEEP ME WITH PLENTY OF COMPANY SO I CAN ONLY THINK OF 1 THING I NEED A MAN FOR.
I did it and I don’t consider myself as a HO ,I was out with the girls an he walk in an we dance a couple times an had he cooked me breakfast,,, And we became friends that did not happen again so why the [HO] LOVE the show
Hey Dede and George, It depends on what you mean by hoe.. If you mean easy then I think she’s actually gullible instead. If you mean a mutual sexual exchanged then I believe she’s liberated. If her motive is to gain something (other than mutual sexual satisfaction) like money, property or even status… I think its closer to being a whore. But if a female’s, like a male’s, motive is sexual conquest with absolutely no accountability (where the other party is thinking it is more than being another notch) – to me that’s a hoe.
I have to admit I agree with dee dee when in time of drought sometimes we don’t make the best decisions. I had intimate relations with my husband within 2 weeks of dating him. I don’t regret it. We have 2 children and have been together for 20 years. We have a good relationship and he is my best friend and I am his best friend.
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