Dear Doug Letter: Booty Fetish

by Doug Banks Radio Show
Dear Doug

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and in that time we have never cheated on each other. We have also been able to build a successful business together. One of the biggest problems we have is that he has a fetish with females’ bootys. There have been a few times when he has been gawking at a girl’s butt and I have found it disrespectful. Now its at a point that he does it and he lies about it. After seeing him do it several times I have reached a conclusion that I don’t want to deal with it at all.  I explained to him how it makes me feel disrespected, it hurts.  He protests that this is a small thing and that I should not be bothered by it and the fact that I am bothered by it is my problem. I feel like his immature behavior is causing me a great deal of stress which in turn is affecting the business and everything else. He says often (and I know it to be true) that things could always be worse.

Please tell me if this is just some psychosis of my own mind, blatant immaturity, disrespect or something that comes along with dating a black man?

Signed Miss Not So Bootylicious

Doug Banks Radio Show


8 Comments

  1. Deborah
    29 July 11, 4:25pm

    This is simple and like he said it’s little, put the shoe on his foot and do some gawking of your own… “oh now that brother is packing” now initially he might act like it’s nothing but trust me when I say a few hundred of those and he’ll be right where you are with it; feeling all disrespected, and tell him you have a big PENIS fetish you’re just over reacting!

  2. Alonda
    29 July 11, 4:49pm

    I have the same problem with my guy. One time, he actually stopped driving the car to look at a woman who was walking down the street. He doesn’t think gawking at other women’s butts is a big deal. But he thinks it’s very disrespectful when I allow male friends to sometimes greet me with a hug or a kiss on the cheek. I told him, “Oh, well. You like butts, and I like hugs.”

  3. Millicent
    29 July 11, 6:44pm

    OMG!!!!!! This is the only problem that you have with your husband, keep it up and you wont be able to say he’s never cheated. Sit back and enjoy the riches…..or get in the gym and make you a muscle that’s all booty it is.

  4. CarlaB
    24 October 11, 5:31pm

    gawk at some big feet and big d… and some big hands, he trying to tell you that you are not enough to him or something? you try some gawking yourself if he leaves you he probably wasn’t the one anyway

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