Dear Doug Letter: Booty Fetish
by Doug Banks Radio Show
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and in that time we have never cheated on each other. We have also been able to build a successful business together. One of the biggest problems we have is that he has a fetish with females’ bootys. There have been a few times when he has been gawking at a girl’s butt and I have found it disrespectful. Now its at a point that he does it and he lies about it. After seeing him do it several times I have reached a conclusion that I don’t want to deal with it at all. I explained to him how it makes me feel disrespected, it hurts. He protests that this is a small thing and that I should not be bothered by it and the fact that I am bothered by it is my problem. I feel like his immature behavior is causing me a great deal of stress which in turn is affecting the business and everything else. He says often (and I know it to be true) that things could always be worse.
Please tell me if this is just some psychosis of my own mind, blatant immaturity, disrespect or something that comes along with dating a black man?
Signed Miss Not So Bootylicious