Dear Doug Letters
By Doug Banks Radio Show
Is staying with a cheater better than being alone? I am a 53 year divorced woman of two grown children and grandmother of four. I have been divorced over 30 years and never remarried.
After years of being alone I thought I found a good one. We met on Facebook a year and a half ago and we have been dating ever since. We have had really great times but unfortunately I lost my job four months ago. He is stable and been on his job for eight years. Recently, he has been helping me with some of my bills. He asked to use my computer the other day and when I logged on I saw where he forgot to log out of a dating website.
I didn’t confront him because I really need his financially support. Truth be told I don’t look as good as I did years ago and I have gained weight and I love his companionship? But if he is looking at dating websites does he still love my companionship? Do I stay with a cheater out of need and necessity and risk being alone again minus sexual companionship? Please help me out.
Don’t want to be Alone