Dear Doug Letters
By Doug Banks Radio Show
I don’t know whether to call it jealousy or insecurity. My husband and I have been married almost 30 years. Last year at my husband’s surprise birthday party, one of my friends asked who a certain woman was in the room. When I asked why, she said, “She and your husband have been making eye contact all night, and he seems to be paying her a lot of attention.” Just to be sure I was not imaging things, I asked my sister. She thought there might be something going on too. This woman and her husband are members of our steppers group. So, from there on I started watching the behavior between them.
Late one evening, I confronted my husband. He was furious, and said if something is going on, it is all on her side. (What does THAT mean?) I told him then that my first warning was to him, the next will be to her, and thereafter to her husband. After this discussion, the next time I saw this woman, she avoided me like the plague. My husband denied saying anything to her. I think it’s time for my warning to her. Should I pursue this matter or should I just leave it alone?
Stepping In The Name Love