Dear Doug Letters

by Doug Banks Radio Show

Dear Doug,

I have been dating a very nice young lady for 4 months. Things have been going great. She is very reserved and quiet. She carries herself as a phenomenal woman at all times and I have a great deal of respect for her.
We have taken our relationship to the next level recently. Needless to say the sex for the first time was great. But she has completely surprised me in ways that I couldn’t imagine. She brings a new meaning to a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets. She was animal even wanting me to choke her while having sex.
Here’s my dilemma, I am a strong virile man but I don’t know if I’m going to be able to keep up with her at the pace that she runs in the bedroom. I feel like she tricked me being all reserved and then shows me this sexual beast. Because of my respect for women and most importantly my respect for her some of the things she wants me to do to her I feel uncomfortable doing. I feel close to her and don’t want to lose her. What should I do?
Hit or Run

Doug Banks Radio Show


  1. 07 February 14, 4:33pm

    What problem , you gotta make tapp out

  2. Ken
    07 February 14, 4:54pm

    As long as she is not doing multiple men, what is the problem!

  3. Jasmine
    07 February 14, 4:57pm

    Give her what she wants. When she is near death from suffocation, she won’t ask for that again. If he doesn’t give her what she is asking for, she will find a guy that will. Trust and believe

  4. Tami
    07 February 14, 6:55pm

    Save yourself some time & heartache. Sexual needs and desires usually aren’t negotiable and while she may compromise for a time I doubt it will be sustainable. It’s unfortunate but the temptation to cheat may be too much for her, and you will be forever worried that you are not satisfying her, causing additional issues.

  5. shirley watson
    09 February 14, 10:24am

    She is not a god fearing woman and you are not a god fearing man. The both of you should be running from one another. When you incorporate sex without marriage expect greater problems to arise. If she is like that in the bedroom can you imagine what else she haven’t show you YET?????

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