Dear Doug Letters
By Doug Banks Radio Show
I had a baby as a result of an affair. We met on a flight where he was traveling on business as was I. We struck up a conversation and one thing lead to another and we kept in contact. Eventually our contact turned into a full blown affair resulting in a child.
I am not shamed of the affair. He was married 11 years and has three other kids. Sadly, he died of a heart attack back in September. He knew of his child but never shared this with his family. This is my first child and I want him to know his other siblings. Should I shock his wife with this news or should I just keep it to myself and raise my son as I have been? I need your help.